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  • Explore your writing dreams, and focus on success

    Explore your writing dreams, and focus on success

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    Forget About Fear, and Focus on Success

    As we turn our focus to creativity, I am so pleased to present Valerie Nifora’s guest post on what prevents people from following their dreams.  Valerie is the author of, I Asked the Wind: A Collection of Romantic Poetry.  I hope you enjoy.  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

     

    I was tapping my pencil and staring out the window when a question someone asked me recently kept repeating in my head. She wanted to know what prevents people from following their dreams of becoming an author?

    Thinking hard about this question, the easy answers are:

    • lack of motivation,
    • not knowing how to start,
    • not having enough resources, or
    • required expertise.

     

    But, what I think it boils down to is one-word fear — fear of failure (granted), but more subtle is fear of success.

    WHERE DO DREAMS BEGIN?

    I can speak from my own experience, that it was my dream to be a published author. It all started in fourth grade when my teacher had us write a story and then bind it in a book. (My mother has it in a drawer somewhere where she keeps these things like most mothers.) Something very magical happened that day that carried in my heart quietly for about four decades.

    Oh, to be a published author with my name on the spine! I visualized that a lot and often. I would start and stop query letters. I would start and stop (and sometimes loose) manuscripts. And I would take every failed attempt because who among us isn’t used to failure?

    Explore your writing dreams, and focus on successFailure is a familiar friend. It sits next to you with one arm around your shoulder hovering between, “I told you so,” and “At least you tried.”

    But success? Goodness! Success is the popular girl at the party, and everyone wants to talk to her. Who wants that pressure?

    THE TRUTH ABOUT SUCCESS

    If we really think about it, many of us feel that success will change us or change our lives or make things different. So isn’t it easier not to bother? If you’re successful in achieving your dream well, then you’re accountable for it now. You own it. It’s yours.

    But here’s the part that I didn’t realize — doing the thing you dream about, actually doing it — even in small measures is enormously gratifying. If you don’t worry about succeeding at it (Not sure I’ll ever make NY Times Best Seller or Poet Laureate), somehow it comes. And it doesn’t matter how successful whatever your dream is — the joy of using your talents fulfills itself!

    So, I’m not sure what your dream is (big or small) go ahead and give it a go. And even if you can’t do it on a big scale and you have to do it “small,” so what — you did it. Stop worrying and just do it. The world will thank you for it.

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  • How to Energize Your Writing to Improve Productivity

    How to Energize Your Writing to Improve Productivity

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    Do you ever wish you could energize your writing to improve your productivity?

    Sleepless nights, fatigue, and feeling tired can take its toll on anyone, including writers.  Despite how you feel, the blog post, the article, and the book still have to be written by the deadline.

    To stay on track, I have tried lots of things over the years.  If you experience WWT – writing while tired — here are 12 tips on how to get more energy to improve your productivity.

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    In preparing to write

    TIP #1 – Get Some Rest

    I realize for some people, getting a good night’s sleep is easier said than done.  For me, all I had to do was make a few adjustments in my bedtime routine.  First, I try to go bed at the same time every night, Sunday through Thursday (I stay up a little later on Fridays).  Second, I downloaded Calm, a relaxation, and meditation app, which offers soothing music and bedtime stories to help me sleep.  Finally, I use the Moonbow Bedphones, wireless sleep headphones that allow me to lay on my side without feeling the pain of an earbud in my ear.  My sleep routine helps me get the rest I need to avoid feeling tired.
    How to Energize Your Writing

    TIP #2 – Practice Mindful Eating

    The next thing I did to avoid being tired was to deal with my eating habits.  While on vacation, I decided to watch Dr. Mark Hyman talk to Will and Jada Pinkett Smith and their family about their health.  Talking to each family member, Dr. Hyman explained how their gut health was affecting their energy levels.   It was fascinating.  I never considered how much the health of my gut could impact my energy.

    In talking to my doctor, I confirmed that my overall health is fine.  But I know I go overboard sometimes with sugar. So I decided to make adjustments to my eating habits to see if my energy level could improve, and it did.  Dr. Hyman offers great advice in his books, Food: What the Heck Should I Eat? and Food: What the Heck Should I Cook? So I changed my eating habits to include more vegetables, fruits, and nuts, and less processed foods and sugar.  As a result, I lost ten pounds, and I have more energy throughout the day to get more writing done.

    How to Energize Your Writing to Improve Productivity

    TIP #3 – Make Time to Exercise

    Exercise is an excellent way to get the blood circulating through your body and boost energy.  Whether in the gym or at home, squeezing in a workout isn’t too hard for me.  After years of being overweight, I changed my daily routine to include an early morning workout between 5 and 9 a.m.  When I can’t get to the gym, I grab my yoga mat, towel, and exercise ball at home.  There are lots of apps and 15- or 20-minute workouts on YouTube.

    Not only does working out help improve my health and energy level, but it helps me think about my writing assignments for the day.  While on the treadmill or the elliptical, I often develop ideas for books or blog posts. During breaks, I capture my thoughts in the notes app on my smartphone.

    How to Energize Your Writing to Improve Productivity

    TIP #4 – Clear the Clutter

    I never knew how exhausting clutter could be until I tried to write.  While a messy desk may mean that some of us are geniuses, it’s a distraction for me.  To avoid wasting energy during my writing time, I take the following steps.

    1. Don’t create piles.  Rather than letting mail pile up on my desk, I’ve learned to throw away or file documents.
    2. Avoid making your desk a storage bin. I use to leave everything on my desk.  Now I like to keep it clear and clean after each writing session.
    3. Declutter each week. Since I decluttered my writing space, I try to schedule weekly cleaning sessions.
    4. An organized home office is your key to finally getting things done.  Check out  Darla DeMorrow‘s book, The Upbeat, Organized Home Office: Five Simple Steps to SORT and Succeed for an Organized Mind.

    How to Energize Your Writing to Improve ProductivityOn your writing days

    TIP #5 – Write When You Have the Most Energy

    Even with a good night’s sleep, I realize that my energy levels are different throughout the day.  By reading the book, The Power of When I learned that timing is everything.  The author explains chronotypes, a classification of the general timing of my biological clock.  After taking Dr. Michael Breus’ Bio-Time Quiz, I discovered I am a lion – someone who is an early-riser ready to tackle anything in the morning, but tired by the end of the day.

    Armed with this information, I now know that I get more writing done during the time when I have the most energy.  So I work on blog posts, client assignments, and my book during the morning hours and save other activities like social media and website maintenance for the second part of my day.

    TIP #6 – Use Writing Prompts

    Sometimes it’s hard to get into the flow of writing.  Avoid wasting time and energy by freewriting. During a freewriting session, you set a timer for a certain amount of time, like 5, 10, or 15 minutes.  Once the timer goes off, give yourself a 5 or 10-minute break.  When I write for 45 minutes, I take a 15-minute break.  During a freewriting session, you can write about a specific topic or use a writing prompt.  As you write, don’t worry about editing, grammar, or punctuation.  From start to finish, write, and don’t stop.  Here’s a free practical guide on writing which includes a copy of my writing prompts to help you get started.

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      TIP #7 – Set a Time Limit on How Long You Will Write

      I used to think I had all day to get my writing done.  Part of this thinking came about as a result of me attending graduate school online, outside of regular work hours.  Sometimes the only time I had to write a 17-page  paper was at night and on weekends.  But those days are gone.  For my writing business, I learned that I stayed focused and energized when I set a time limit for each writing project.  Before I begin writing, I decided if my session will last for one, two, or three hours.

       

      TIP #8 – Take Breaks When Writing

      Once I set my writing time for each project, I determine when I will take a break and for how long.  Studies highlight the benefits of taking a 15-minute break after working 90 minutes.  But you can work for shorter periods and still take breaks.  For example, if I write for 30 minutes, I take a 5-minute break, but if I write for 45 minutes, I take a 15-minute break.  The length of your break is up to you.  But remember, your break should not carry you away from your writing session.

       

      TIP # 9 – Take a Walk

      While on a writing break, I like to take a quick walk.  Sometimes I walk around the building or library where I am working or down the street if I’m at home.  A walk not only helps me stay active, but it also allows me to think about what I am writing.  By the time I return to my writing, I feel better, and I have a few more ideas for the content I am working on.

       

      TIP #10 – Take a Nap

      Studies show there are benefits in taking short naps during the day.  There are three types of naps which include:

      • Planned napping where you take a nap before getting sleepy.
      • Emergency napping happens when you are suddenly so tired that you cannot continue until you take a nap.
      • Habitual napping involves taking a nap at the same time every day.

       

      Sleep experts believe a 20-30 minute nap improves alertness.  However, a nap taken late in the day could negatively affect your regular nighttime routine.

       

      TIP #11 – Write While Standing

      I realize this may not work for everyone, but I like writing at a standing desk. Studies show that using a standing desk can reduce stress while improving energy levels. While working at my standup desk, I use a floor mat to reduce pressure on my legs and feet.  I don’t usually stand all day.  By the afternoon, I try to take a seat, move around, or run errands.
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      TIP #12 – Try Writing in Different Places

      Nothing energizes my writing sessions like a trip to my local library.  Once I find a writing space near, set up my laptop, and plug in my headphones, my brain switches to ready-to-write mode.  By the time I leave, I have accomplished my goal.

       

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    • How to Rekindle Your Love for Writing

      How to Rekindle Your Love for Writing

      If you and writing are long-time friends who can’t find the time to get together anymore, below are seven tips on how to rekindle your love for writing.

      How to Rekindle Your Love for Writing

      I publicly declared my love for writing in 1998.  I can remember telling my coworker, Robin, that I was planning to write my first book.  Although I always wanted to write a book, I never told anyone.  But I felt safe sharing my dream with Robin, who would eventually become one of my dearest friends and biggest cheerleaders.

      It took 20 years for my dream to come true.  Yes, you read that right, 20! While I don’t remember all of the reasons it took so long, I know that I fell in and out of love with writing so many times I lost count.

      Sometimes writing and I met regularly.  At first, we found time to get together early every morning.  Sometimes we met late at night while everyone in the house was asleep.  Throughout the day, we would look for opportunities to steal a few minutes together here or there.  When we tried to meet on long flights, we were interrupted by curious seatmates or tempted with the latest movies.  The times we thought we could get together on the train quickly faded as my attention moved to something else.  Because we found it so hard to find time for each other, we grew apart.

      Does this sound familiar?  Don’t worry.  If this is the year you finally finish writing something that’s been rolling around in your head for a while, it’s never too late to rekindle your love for writing.

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      Find Your Writing Blockers

      The writer’s block, where writers feel a creative slowdown that prevents them from writing, is shared within the writing community.  However, when talking to writers, I find that external forces outside the brain can block the creative writing flow. I call them writing blockers. Every writer must come to terms with the potential blockers that keep them from writing.  I did a little experiment to identify my writing blockers. Every time I started to write but stopped after a few minutes, I noticed I got up to walk across the room or to go upstairs.  Since I used to work in an office that offered standing desks, I realized that’s what was missing in my home office.  To fix the problem, I got an adjustable standing desk converter to put on top of a table.

      Other tools I use to deal with writing blockers include:

      Noise-canceling headphones.  I was given the Bose QuietComfort headphones as a gift, which I love because they offer such a rich sound while reducing distractions.  But there are lots of great headphones on the market.

       

      Calm. While I originally downloaded the Calm app to help me sleep better, I found the music to focus on while writing.

      How to Rekindle Your Love for WritingFind out what prevents you from writing.  Is your writing environment loud, uncomfortable, or distracting?  Within five minutes of your writing time, are you interrupted by something?  Are you too tired to write?  Once you find your writing blockers, deal with them quickly, or they will rob you of your precious writing time.

      Start Small

      As you rekindle your love for writing, don’t try to tackle too much at one time.  Take small steps to keep going.  Dr. Robert Maurer, the author of, One Small Step Can Change Your Life, believes we only need to take small steps to correct a problem.  For example, to start writing again, commit to writing one sentence or paragraph per day for seven days.  Once you reach your goal, increase the number to two sentences or two paragraphs.  Whether you take big steps or small steps is up to you.  The idea is to start with something small enough for you to handle and keep going.

      Exercise Your Brain

      When I want to rekindle my love for writing, I turn to my next love:  reading.  I love to read books, newspapers, and magazines to get new ideas for blog posts, articles, or future books.  I use brainstorming as a way to explore new ideas.  For example, while reading an article in one of my favorite magazines, Real Simple, I brainstormed on the idea of becoming a more organized writer.  As you read, jot down ideas that make good writing topics.

      Write Your Way Free

      Whether it’s been a while since you wrote anything or you write every day, freewriting is a good way to begin every writing session.  During a freewriting session, you set a timer for a certain amount of time, like 5, 10, or 15 minutes.  Once the timer goes off, give yourself a 5 or 10-minute break.  When I write for 45 minutes, I take a 15-minute break.  During a freewriting session, you can write about a specific topic or use a writing prompt.  As you write, don’t worry about editing, grammar, or punctuation.  From start to finish, write, and don’t stop.

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        Renew Your Vow to Write

        If you are serious about starting a new relationship with writing, then it’s time to renew your vow.  Start by asking yourself questions like:

        • On which days can I write?
        • How long do I have time to write during each session?
        • Where will I sit/stand to write this week?

        Do you need to forsake your family or give up your favorite hobby?  Absolutely not. In making a new vow to your writing, you also get to decide how you will manage your other relationships and interests.  If you are serious about being faithful to your writing, protect your new commitment.

         

        Give Yourself Permission to Take a Break

        As a writer, I had to understand that sometimes I may need to take a break from writing.  During a recent break from writing my second book, I read Bryan Hutchinson’s book, Serious Writers Never Quit:  They Find The Way.  Full of insights and tips on writing, I found the boost I needed to get back to writing my book.  The most satisfying part of the book is in Chapter 11 when Hutchinson wrote, “Everything you’ve done or not done up to this point no longer matters.  Let it all go.” I love that!  For weeks I felt behind schedule and disappointed in my writing progress. But no more.  I let those feelings go immediately. Bryan’s book inspired me to start writing my book again, and a review on the book for my blog.

         

        Don’t Overthink It

        It’s time to start writing again but don’t overthink it.  Whether you write for one hour or one minute is entirely up to you.  Blow the dust off your unfinished manuscript, poem, short story or whatever you were working on.  Just start where you are and keep going.  And if you stray again, apologize to your writing and start again.
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      • How to Create a Productive Writing Routine

        How to Create a Productive Writing Routine

        One of the biggest obstacles solopreneurs, freelance writers, bloggers, and entrepreneurs face is how to create a productive writing routine.

        Disclosure: This page contains affiliate links, which means I receive a small commission, at no extra cost to you, if you make a purchase using the links. Not only do you have to run your business, but you need to find time to write your first book or your next book.

        It’s easy to get overwhelmed and thrown off track.

        But how we view and manage our time requires a shift in mindset and behaviors. If you currently have a writing routine that is not working, here are five steps on how to fix it immediately.

        Do you wonder how some writers can write anywhere? When you travel with the right tools, you can get a lot done. Check out this list for ideas.

        A cluttered writing space can slow down your productivity.  Here are a few ideas on how to declutter and simplify your writing life.

        The infographic below offers five tips on how to create a productive writing routine. Are there other things you can do to establish a productive writing routine? Absolutely. The infographic highlights five steps to get you started.

        Feel free to share your ideas in the comments section.
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      • How to Navigate the Self-Publishing Journey

        How to Navigate the Self-Publishing Journey

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        I am pleased to present Barbara Barth’s guest post about her self-publishing journey.  Barbara is the author of, The Unfaithful Widow Ten Years Later

        I hope you enjoy.  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

        How to navigate the self-publishing journey

         

        Tell us about self-publishing your first memoir

        I was naïve about writing and publishing with my first memoir, The Unfaithful Widow. My goal was to get my story out into the real world, to help myself heal, and maybe help others who had lost a mate, too. Writing had given me purpose late at night. How to publish was a mystery to me. I wasn’t getting any younger (my husband died three months before I turned sixty). Now I was almost sixty-two. Turning to Google I typed publishing in the search bar. My head spun on my shoulders with so much information. It didn’t take long for me to decide to self-publish. Of course, I hadn’t read fully, and my idea of self-publishing was to turn to a vanity press.

        TIP #1: Learn as much as you can about self-publishing before you embark on your author journey.

        Visit IngramSpark to check out their blog and free self-publishing course.

        Which company did you use to publish your first book?

        The company I used was Outskirts Press and they did a fantastic job with my book. There were some bumps along the road, but for a first-timer I was in heaven watching my book design become a reality. It was an expensive learning experience. If I had been a better editor or had taken the time to hire an editor, I would have saved the expense of the corrections after the fact. The layout of the interior was exactly how I’d envisioned it. I told them what I wanted, worked with their design team, paid my money, and they brought my memoir to life. My book was an art project for me from the initial writing, to the placement of photos, text font, and odd little poems and quotes. My sister created the altered art pictures and photos used throughout.

        TIP #2: Before publishing your book, send your manuscript to an editor and proofreader.

        For example, there are several companies like Scribendi and NY Book Editors that offer editing and proofreading services.

        How did you go about creating your book’s cover design?

        While Outskirts Press designed the interior PDF, I chose to handle the cover differently. My sister asked a graphic artist friend to help come up with something special. Between the two of them, my cover was birthed. A cover that has been the subject of several online discussions because of the mostly white background and the question about the sunglasses. Are they mine or do they belong to my late husband?

        TIP #3: Invest in a professionally designed book cover.

        Companies like Fivver and 99Designs make access to graphic designers easy.

        How to navigate the self-publishing journey: book cover design

        Do you have any regrets?

        Am I sorry I used a vanity press? No. The book is awesome looking. I am proud of it. And somehow for a gal who didn’t know the first thing about writing or publishing I got it done. In April 2010 my first box of books arrived and later that summer I took my book on my first blog tour with WOW! Women on Writing. The Unfaithful Widow placed as a finalist in the 2011 USA Best Book Awards. I’ve made incredible friends through my widow memoir. I think I have the man upstairs to thank for helping me find the right path to follow.

         

        Over time I learned more about the real world of self-publishing, so my fictional naughty thriller (yes, every gal needs one) was self-published in 2014 under my imprint Gilbert Street Press, as was my picture book A Dog Dreams of Paris in 2015. My sister does my design work and has the patience of a saint because I am always correcting something. And while I say self-publishing, she is the genius behind how my books look. I’d be lost without her. Sometimes she takes on another client. Her company is  PD King Design. But don’t get in my way, I’ve got another book in the works, and I get priority!

         

        After the book is completed, my sister loads it up to Amazon and Kindle. Originally, she did this through Create Space which is now Kindle Direct Publishing. There other avenues for self-publishing, but I’ve been happy going this route and amazed at the help they offer if we hit a snag.

        TIP #4: The interior design of your book is just as important as your book cover.

        Hire a graphic designer, like Pam at PD King Design, who can help you design the inside and outside of your book.

        From your experience, it sounds like self-publishing was a good decision

        I love self-publishing because I have a total vision in my head when I see a story, from the written word to the final product. It’s about control (I’m a Leo, you know how they are) and the excitement of figuring out what works, what doesn’t. The only vanity this time is mine, wanting to have the best-looking book I can.

         

        Writing, editing, and publishing. I’m still learning. Aren’t we all as writers? The most wonderful process of putting words on paper is a never-ending joy. Self-publishing is my way of doing it. If a famous agent shows interest, well, call me. We’ll talk. Just remember, I’m seventy-one now and can’t wait forever!

        TIP #5: Market your book.

        Plan your book promotion and marketing plan before you find your book.  Look for opportunities to reach potential readers through book signings, speaking engagements and a blog book tour.  WOW! Women on Writing offers blog book tours to help authors promote their books.

        About Barbara Barth

        Author, blogger, sometimes antique dealer, dog hoarder, bedazzled by life. Widowed eleven years ago, Barth writes about finding a creative path back to happiness. Her recent move to a 1906 historic cottage brought many surprises, including discovering the Monroe–Walton Center for the Arts where she started the monthly Walton Writers group and is on the MWCA Board as Literary Arts Chair. Barth is a contributor to Walton Living Magazine and a former blogger for The Balancing Act, Lifetime Television’s morning show for women. Currently she lives with six dogs, rescue dogs that rescued her. Visit her website here.  Her books are available on Amazon and Kindle. To visit Barbara’s author page, click here .

      • Time to Reflect:  Time to Refresh Honored

        Time to Reflect: Time to Refresh Honored

        Female writer with notebook Time to Reflect: Time to Refresh Honored

         

        Since it’s been one year since I wrote my first book, Time to Refresh, I thought now would be a good time to reflect.

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        Expect the Unexpected

        When I started writing, Time to Refresh, I didn’t know what to expect.  All I knew was that God told me to write the book.

        I was driving home from the gym one morning thinking about being laid off.  While sitting at the light, a ton of thoughts flooded my mind.  What will I do with my time?  Why do layoffs bring fear and shame? Why is joblessness so hard to talk about?  How can I show people they can find peace in the midst of a job layoff?

        There were so many directions I could take the book, but God only wanted me to focus on one thing:  Be transformed by renewing your mind.

        I took  God’s command just as serious as Habakkuk did when God said,

        Write the vision. Make it clear on tablets so that anyone can read it quickly.  (Habakkuk 2:2).

        My prayer was this: Lord, teach me how to write this book so you will get the glory.

         

        Pressing Forward

        Before I started writing, I created an outline, researched Scriptures and information, and reviewed Bible study notes.  I wrote every day for a minimum of two hours while standing at my kitchen island. As I completed each chapter, I stood in awe of what God was doing through my hands.  I couldn’t believe I was actually writing my first book. I pressed forward every day, even on days when I didn’t want to until I finished.  Since writing my book, I created a 10-step guide to help others with their writing journey.

        Since releasing Time to Refresh to the world in August 2018, the response has been positive.  I enjoy hearing how the book is helping people deal with their challenges.  But more importantly, readers have told me the book is helping them see life through new eyes.  My response:  To God be the glory! (Galatians 1:5)

        A Brand-New Thing

        On November 13, 2019, my book was honored as a Finalist in the Religion: Christian Inspirational Category of the 2019 Best Book Awards sponsored by the American Book Fest.  According to Jeffrey Keen, President, and CEO of American Book Fest, this year’s contest yielded over 2,000 entries from mainstream and independent publishers, which were then narrowed down to over 400 winners and finalists.

        I am grateful for how far the book has come and how God is using it to speak to so many people. It is clear to me how God can use anyone and any challenge to inspire hope. I appreciate Isaiah 43:19:

        For I’m going to do a brand-new thing. See, I have already begun! Don’t you see it? I will make a road through the wilderness of the world for my people to go home, and create rivers for them in the desert!

        No matter what you are going through, trust God.  You never know what God has planned in the next chapter of your life.

        To God be the glory!

        Karen

         

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