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  • How to Write a Book When You Feel Like Quitting

    How to Write a Book When You Feel Like Quitting

    How to Write You a Book When You Feel Like QuittingFor the past few weeks, we have focused on capturing our thoughts,  survival, and following our dreams.  Today, I am so pleased to present Joyce Shulman’s guest post on how to write a book.  Joyce is the author of Walk Your Way to Better.  Joyce offers advice on how we make our dreams of writing a book a reality.  Please share your thoughts in the comments. Enjoy!

     

     

    My cousin called me a few months ago. “I want to write a novel,” she said. She described the characters in detail and walked me through the plot. It had the potential to be a captivating story.

     

    “Go for it,” I said. “You’re a great writer, and it sounds like a great story.”

     

    Six weeks later, she called again. “So,” she began hesitantly. “How exactly do you write a book?” she asked. “Did you map it all out on index cards first, or do an outline or, well, how do you do it?”

     

    “You put your butt in the chair and write,” I said. “There is no magic formula.”

     

    Last week, another friend messaged me: “I have an idea for a book, and I’d love your opinion,” she said.

     

    We hopped on the phone the next morning, and she described the moment when the idea for her book came to her, fully formed, while she was sitting on her back porch, sipping a cup of coffee. The idea was compelling, and I told her so. “You should write this,” I said.

     

    “I know,” she said. “I want to, but I’m not sure I ever will,” she sighed.

     

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    How can you become inspired to write a book?

    Someone once said that everyone has one book inside them, and I believe that’s true. Ever since I published my first book, dozens of friends have confided that writing a book has been a long-time dream.

     

    The question is, how do you get inspired to do the work it takes to get hundreds of thousands of words on paper? How do you “find” the time? Where does the inspiration come from when you feel like quitting?

     

    I wish I had an easy answer for you. I wish there were a magic formula.

     

    Sadly, there’s not. Honestly, you just have to put your butt in the chair.

     

    But four things helped me get from the dream of publishing my first book to holding it in my hands fourteen months later.

     

    How to write a book when you feel like quitting

    Four steps to writing a book

    See the end.

    While you might not know the entire story and you certainly won’t know every word, you have to be able to picture the end. You have to know where you are going and what you want to build. You must have a vision of the structure of your book, whether it is in your head or on paper. You need to know where you are going, even if you aren’t 100% sure how you will get there.

     

    Commit to a doable daily word count.

    Six hundred words a day was my minimum, and that’s not a lot. And some days, those 600 words were crap. But some days, I got on a roll, and 600 words quickly became 1,000 words that I was proud of. But whatever it is, whatever you know you can do, you need to commit. Daily.

     

    Then get lost in the process.

    Then, you need to fall in love with the process. Okay, maybe fall in love is an overstatement. Some days, the empty white page will feel overwhelming, and the writing will feel like torture. But some days, the thoughts will come, and the words will flow. Hang on for those days.

     

    Don’t wait to find the time — you never will.

    If this is something you want to do, you will need to make the time. And that might be at 5:00 a.m. That might be what you do in the evenings instead of watching This is Us. Unless you are one of those rare people who happen to have an extra hour or two in each day — and if you are, I’ve never met you — you are going to have to make the time.

     

    A final thought. Writing a book is hard. Like, hard. Editing, formatting, publishing it is even harder. You will only get from where you sit right now to holding your book in your hands if it is something you want to do. But if it is, put your butt in the chair and get to work.

    Walk Your Way to BetterJoyce Shulman is the co-founder of Macaroni Kid, Pack Leader at 99 Walks, and author of Walk Your Way to Better. A serial entrepreneur, speaker, and confessed idea junkie, you can find her on Instagram at Joyce.r.shulman.

     

  • Will You Mow a Lawn For Your Dream?

    Will You Mow a Lawn For Your Dream?

    Will you mow the lawn for your dreamAs I begin a new series focused on making new plans, I am pleased to present Alexandra Franzen’s inspiring guest post, which asks, Will you mow the lawn to follow your dream? Alexandra is the author of  You’re Going to Survive and The Checklist Book.  You can connect with Alexandra on her website or you can leave her a comment below.  I hope you enjoy today’s post. 

     

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    Jack’s Dream

     

    Here’s a true story about a kid named Jack.

     

    He’s seventeen years old. He loves musical theater. He sings. He dances. He acts. He’s a triple threat. He dreams about being on Broadway when he’s older.

     

    Jack discovered a company called the Broadway Collective. They run a summer program in NYC—five days of master classes led by Broadway legends, plus tickets to Tony Award-winning shows, dinner with cast members, and lots more. An absolute dream for any young performing artist.

     

    Jack really wanted to attend this summer program.

     

    His parents told him, “We love you, and we support you, but if you’re serious about this… then you need to earn money for the tuition, airfare, and hotel by yourself.”

    Oh, Jack was serious.

     

    He started mowing lawns, babysitting, doing all kinds of jobs after school. He saved up—one dollar at a time. Little by little, his dream-fund grew and grew.

     

    It took about a year, but he did it. He earned the cash. He enrolled. He got himself to NYC. When he arrived, he walked into the dance studio with fire in his eyes, looking like a tiger. He’d fought to be there. He made his dream happen.

     

    Start Mowing

     

    What about you?

     

    What will you do for your dream?

     

    Will you mow a lawn for your dream?

     

    Will you sell a couch for your dream?

     

    Will you wake up at dawn for your dream?

     

    Will you sweat for your dream? Make an effort for your dream? Show up for your dream? Take a risk for your dream? Endure a tiny bit of temporary discomfort for your dream? Make mistakes, pick yourself back up, and keep fighting for your dream?

     

    We can make excuses. Or we can make progress.

     

    Just like Jack, we all have a “lawn” (literal or metaphorical) that we need to mow–some type of step that needs to be completed to move closer to The Big Dream.

     

    Whatever your dream may be (a new career, better health, a thriving relationship, less debt, more peace of mind, less stress, more free time, anything you desire), and whatever your lawn may be. Start mowing.

     

    You can do it. Really, you can. There’s nothing more powerful than a mind that has been made up. And like my friend Nicole often says, you can do hard things.

    Will you mow the lawn for your dream

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    Selected stories from the book You’re Going to Survive: True stories from people who’ve endured soul-crushing moments in their careers—failure, rejection, disappointment, public humiliation—and how they got through it, and how you will too.

     

    Read by the author, Alexandra Franzen.

     

    Website – alexandrafranzen.com

     

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    Will you mow a lawn for your dream?

  • The Inspiration of Save the Cat! on Creatives

    The Inspiration of Save the Cat! on Creatives

    The Language of StorytellersAs a followup to my post, How to write a book with Save the Cat!, I am so pleased to present Jason Kolinsky’s guest post about storytelling and the inspiration of Save the Cat! on creatives.  Jason is a partner and the first Chief Marketing Officer for Save the Cat!  I hope you enjoy.  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

     

     

    “Story is a puzzle. And getting all the pieces to fit just right… is the point of the job.”

     

    The quote is from the late and great Blake Snyder, screenwriter and best-selling author of Save the Cat!, who also coined the phrase “Save the Cat!”, which is the moment where we meet the hero and the hero does something—like saving a cat—that defines who he/she is and makes us, the audience, like them and want to go on their journey.

     

    Save the Cat! has inspired countless writers to cut through the noise and clearly focus on the sound of what makes a story tick. We can all relate to the fact that just one change in our story can have a ripple effect across the entirety of a novel or screenplay. It takes time and concentration, along with constant arranging and rearranging of all the details, to get the puzzle just right.

     

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    The Language of Storytellers

    Now with the recent arrival of another Amazon best-seller, Save the Cat! Writes a Novel, penned by the proficient author Jessica Brody, the impact of Save the Cat! on storytelling has been cemented for all writers interested in developing work for the stage, page, or screen.

     

    The approach and methodology of Save the Cat! has been so impactful, it’s become the shared language within the creative culture from the writer, to the writer’s room to board rooms.

     

    Featured on the cover of the New Yorker, mentioned in guilty pleasures like Netflix’s You, with nods in critically acclaimed favorites like Amazon’s The Romanoffs, Netflix’s Russian Doll, or on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert—even in fanboy culture like the animated series Teen Titans and among game developers who openly share their use of Save the Cat! to create and pull all the pieces of their narratives together, the impact of Save the Cat! is tangible.

    John Slattery and Amanda Peet in The Romanoffs

     

    Save the Cat! Resources

    If you have the innate desire to turn that idea into a story, Save the Cat! is the place to start and to go back to, over and over again. The site, www.savethecat.com, is filled with tips and tactics to help any writer organize and tighten their story. The Save the Cat! Story Structure Software is a virtual writer’s board to keep your story’s pieces together.

     

    Whatever you do, don’t give up. “The worst thing that can happen in screenwriting is not to finish. Half-written screenplays never sell.” – Blake Snyder

     

    About the Author:

    Jason Kolinsky is a partner and the first Chief Marketing Officer for Save the Cat!. Jason is a seasoned marketing leader who has won Cannes Lions and has held senior roles at world-class global communication agencies, McCann Worldgroup and BBDO/Proximity.

    About Save the Cat!

    Save the Cat!®  is the bestselling story methodology introduced by screenwriter Blake Snyder in 2005 with his first book, Save the Cat! The Last Screenwriting Book You’ll Ever Need. Snyder’s acclaimed ideas, methods, and software have provided thousands of writers with the resources they need to develop their screenplays and novels.
    The Inspiration of Save the Cat! on Creatives

  • Explore your writing dreams, and focus on success

    Explore your writing dreams, and focus on success

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    Forget About Fear, and Focus on Success

    As we turn our focus to creativity, I am so pleased to present Valerie Nifora’s guest post on what prevents people from following their dreams.  Valerie is the author of, I Asked the Wind: A Collection of Romantic Poetry.  I hope you enjoy.  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

     

    I was tapping my pencil and staring out the window when a question someone asked me recently kept repeating in my head. She wanted to know what prevents people from following their dreams of becoming an author?

    Thinking hard about this question, the easy answers are:

    • lack of motivation,
    • not knowing how to start,
    • not having enough resources, or
    • required expertise.

     

    But, what I think it boils down to is one-word fear — fear of failure (granted), but more subtle is fear of success.

    WHERE DO DREAMS BEGIN?

    I can speak from my own experience, that it was my dream to be a published author. It all started in fourth grade when my teacher had us write a story and then bind it in a book. (My mother has it in a drawer somewhere where she keeps these things like most mothers.) Something very magical happened that day that carried in my heart quietly for about four decades.

    Oh, to be a published author with my name on the spine! I visualized that a lot and often. I would start and stop query letters. I would start and stop (and sometimes loose) manuscripts. And I would take every failed attempt because who among us isn’t used to failure?

    Explore your writing dreams, and focus on successFailure is a familiar friend. It sits next to you with one arm around your shoulder hovering between, “I told you so,” and “At least you tried.”

    But success? Goodness! Success is the popular girl at the party, and everyone wants to talk to her. Who wants that pressure?

    THE TRUTH ABOUT SUCCESS

    If we really think about it, many of us feel that success will change us or change our lives or make things different. So isn’t it easier not to bother? If you’re successful in achieving your dream well, then you’re accountable for it now. You own it. It’s yours.

    But here’s the part that I didn’t realize — doing the thing you dream about, actually doing it — even in small measures is enormously gratifying. If you don’t worry about succeeding at it (Not sure I’ll ever make NY Times Best Seller or Poet Laureate), somehow it comes. And it doesn’t matter how successful whatever your dream is — the joy of using your talents fulfills itself!

    So, I’m not sure what your dream is (big or small) go ahead and give it a go. And even if you can’t do it on a big scale and you have to do it “small,” so what — you did it. Stop worrying and just do it. The world will thank you for it.

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  • How to Navigate the Self-Publishing Journey

    How to Navigate the Self-Publishing Journey

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    I am pleased to present Barbara Barth’s guest post about her self-publishing journey.  Barbara is the author of, The Unfaithful Widow Ten Years Later

    I hope you enjoy.  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

    How to navigate the self-publishing journey

     

    Tell us about self-publishing your first memoir

    I was naïve about writing and publishing with my first memoir, The Unfaithful Widow. My goal was to get my story out into the real world, to help myself heal, and maybe help others who had lost a mate, too. Writing had given me purpose late at night. How to publish was a mystery to me. I wasn’t getting any younger (my husband died three months before I turned sixty). Now I was almost sixty-two. Turning to Google I typed publishing in the search bar. My head spun on my shoulders with so much information. It didn’t take long for me to decide to self-publish. Of course, I hadn’t read fully, and my idea of self-publishing was to turn to a vanity press.

    TIP #1: Learn as much as you can about self-publishing before you embark on your author journey.

    Visit IngramSpark to check out their blog and free self-publishing course.

    Which company did you use to publish your first book?

    The company I used was Outskirts Press and they did a fantastic job with my book. There were some bumps along the road, but for a first-timer I was in heaven watching my book design become a reality. It was an expensive learning experience. If I had been a better editor or had taken the time to hire an editor, I would have saved the expense of the corrections after the fact. The layout of the interior was exactly how I’d envisioned it. I told them what I wanted, worked with their design team, paid my money, and they brought my memoir to life. My book was an art project for me from the initial writing, to the placement of photos, text font, and odd little poems and quotes. My sister created the altered art pictures and photos used throughout.

    TIP #2: Before publishing your book, send your manuscript to an editor and proofreader.

    For example, there are several companies like Scribendi and NY Book Editors that offer editing and proofreading services.

    How did you go about creating your book’s cover design?

    While Outskirts Press designed the interior PDF, I chose to handle the cover differently. My sister asked a graphic artist friend to help come up with something special. Between the two of them, my cover was birthed. A cover that has been the subject of several online discussions because of the mostly white background and the question about the sunglasses. Are they mine or do they belong to my late husband?

    TIP #3: Invest in a professionally designed book cover.

    Companies like Fivver and 99Designs make access to graphic designers easy.

    How to navigate the self-publishing journey: book cover design

    Do you have any regrets?

    Am I sorry I used a vanity press? No. The book is awesome looking. I am proud of it. And somehow for a gal who didn’t know the first thing about writing or publishing I got it done. In April 2010 my first box of books arrived and later that summer I took my book on my first blog tour with WOW! Women on Writing. The Unfaithful Widow placed as a finalist in the 2011 USA Best Book Awards. I’ve made incredible friends through my widow memoir. I think I have the man upstairs to thank for helping me find the right path to follow.

     

    Over time I learned more about the real world of self-publishing, so my fictional naughty thriller (yes, every gal needs one) was self-published in 2014 under my imprint Gilbert Street Press, as was my picture book A Dog Dreams of Paris in 2015. My sister does my design work and has the patience of a saint because I am always correcting something. And while I say self-publishing, she is the genius behind how my books look. I’d be lost without her. Sometimes she takes on another client. Her company is  PD King Design. But don’t get in my way, I’ve got another book in the works, and I get priority!

     

    After the book is completed, my sister loads it up to Amazon and Kindle. Originally, she did this through Create Space which is now Kindle Direct Publishing. There other avenues for self-publishing, but I’ve been happy going this route and amazed at the help they offer if we hit a snag.

    TIP #4: The interior design of your book is just as important as your book cover.

    Hire a graphic designer, like Pam at PD King Design, who can help you design the inside and outside of your book.

    From your experience, it sounds like self-publishing was a good decision

    I love self-publishing because I have a total vision in my head when I see a story, from the written word to the final product. It’s about control (I’m a Leo, you know how they are) and the excitement of figuring out what works, what doesn’t. The only vanity this time is mine, wanting to have the best-looking book I can.

     

    Writing, editing, and publishing. I’m still learning. Aren’t we all as writers? The most wonderful process of putting words on paper is a never-ending joy. Self-publishing is my way of doing it. If a famous agent shows interest, well, call me. We’ll talk. Just remember, I’m seventy-one now and can’t wait forever!

    TIP #5: Market your book.

    Plan your book promotion and marketing plan before you find your book.  Look for opportunities to reach potential readers through book signings, speaking engagements and a blog book tour.  WOW! Women on Writing offers blog book tours to help authors promote their books.

    About Barbara Barth

    Author, blogger, sometimes antique dealer, dog hoarder, bedazzled by life. Widowed eleven years ago, Barth writes about finding a creative path back to happiness. Her recent move to a 1906 historic cottage brought many surprises, including discovering the Monroe–Walton Center for the Arts where she started the monthly Walton Writers group and is on the MWCA Board as Literary Arts Chair. Barth is a contributor to Walton Living Magazine and a former blogger for The Balancing Act, Lifetime Television’s morning show for women. Currently she lives with six dogs, rescue dogs that rescued her. Visit her website here.  Her books are available on Amazon and Kindle. To visit Barbara’s author page, click here .

  • Awesome Lessons Learned Writing About that First Cancer Year

    Awesome Lessons Learned Writing About that First Cancer Year

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    I am so pleased to present Antoinette Truglio Martin’s guest post about the 5 lessons she learned writing about her cancer journey.  Antoinette is the author of, Hug Everyone You Know: A Year of Community, Courage, and Cancer.  I hope you enjoy.  Please share your thoughts in the comments.

    Lessons learned while writing about that first cancer year

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    During the first year of breast cancer treatment, I had journaled all of my rage, angst, gratitude, and plans. I also emailed my family and friends (My Everyone), who really wanted to know how I was doing, so I did not have to hear or say those cancer words any more than necessary. I thought that once I had completed the treatment, I would write a memoir. It would be a whimsical tale complete with humor and a happy ending (I survived). For years, I took out the journal and collection of emails, compiled, organized, then abandoned the whole project. There was too much fear I did not want to relive. I put everything away, believing it was a story I did not have to tell. I was healthy, a bit wiser, and happy to live my life without that menace.

    Then, within five years, I was diagnosed with Stage IV metastatic breast cancer (MBC). This is the forever cancer that eventually kills. Now I was terrified.

    I resurrected the journal and emails and read through that epic year. I looked for proof that I could navigate this new diagnosis.

    The act of writing revealed simple revelations that saw me through the fear and treatments five years before. Writing confirmed the courage I had then and the strength I need to draw upon now. Here are some of the lessons I learned.
    Lessons learned while writing about that first cancer year

    1.  Laughter was truly medicinal.

    Writing and reading back about the days’ chuckles was key to keeping my spirits lifted and courage honed. The emails were filled with amusing anecdotes, and my journal entries retold funny moments.

    2.  I acknowledged the perks of chemotherapy and radiation treatments.

    I had lost weight (I had plenty to spare) without feeling I was missing anything. I was so lucky that my hair thinned out to an almost normal thickness. It actually looked like it had a style and was in control.

    3.  I wrote about how valuable my family and friendships were during this tough time.

    I was invited out on lunch dates, a movie, or just sit around on a couch with a glass of wine (or ice water). I noted our schemes for the future and did not have to talk about cancer or treatments. They kept me in the loop. I did not have to repeat the story over and over again since they read the emails.

     

    4.  Each time I had to see my oncologist, nurse, or specialist, I brought my journal and turned to my list of questions and concerns.

    They patiently repeated, worked around my wimpy quirks, and handed me tissues with a smile and a hug. I felt safe and wrote how much I appreciated their time, attention, and compassion.

     

    5.  My journal entries included the awe of sunsets, how my dog greeted me, and the satisfaction of doing a job well.

    A warm afternoon inspired a walk around the corner. Gratitude provided a positive outlook. Each day I could get up, do a job, see people I love, and hug everyone I knew, was a great day. Every day is a gift. It still is.

    About the Author

    Antoinette Truglio Martin is a life-long Long Islander, teacher, wife, mother, daughter, and friend. She is the author of Hug Everyone You Know: A Year of Community, Courage, and Cancer—a memoir chronicling her first year battling breast cancer as a wimpy patient. Personal experience essays and excerpts of her memoir were published in Bridges, Visible Ink, and The Southampton Review. Martin proudly received her MFA in creative writing and literature from Stony Brook/Southampton University in 2016.  Follow her at Facebook and her website.

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