If you are a busy writer-parent, you probably have faced the “I don’t have enough time to write” moments more than once or twice. You are not alone. Lots of writer-parents feel the same way. Here are a few tips on how busy writer-parents can fit writing into their day

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1.  Identify the obstacles preventing you from writing. 

First things first: many writers say that finding time to write is one of the biggest obstacles they face. If you consider yourself part of this group, tackle this issue before starting your next writing session. Make a list of the things preventing you from writing. Be honest. For example, every night after the children go to bed, you vow to write for one hour. Unfortunately, that never happens. You either end up finishing work from your day job or falling asleep on the couch before you write 50 words.  If this sounds familiar, decide what steps you can take so you can write whenever you want.

2.  Take small steps to make time toward your writing goals.

For each of the obstacles you identify, select one or two you would like to change. It’s easy to see from the previous example that writing at night is not working. One small step to address this obstacle would be to move your writing time to the part of the day when you don’t have to meet a work deadline or when you have the most energy. For example, you could get up 30 minutes earlier each day to write. If you write at the start of the day, make sure you are writing when the house is quiet, and there are no distractions.  I know lots of writer-parents you use the wee hours of the morning to their advantage.  

3.  Make time to write in daily spurts.

The thought of writing 10,000 to 20,000 words per day can be overwhelming. Instead, think about writing within a short amount of time, like 10, 15, or 20 minutes. To determine how many words you can write within this time, set your smartphone’s timer for one minute. Using the writing prompt below, write for one minute without stopping:

Write a break-up letter to Writer’s Block, starting with, “Dear Writer’s Block, it’s time for me to say goodbye.”

If you wrote 50 to 100 words in one minute, you could probably write 500 to 1,000 words in 10 minutes. Now, determine how many minutes you can spare each day to write.

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4.  Make time to write by creating a writing schedule.

Look at your calendar and find 10, 15, or 30 minutes each day to write—schedule writing meetings. Use a shared electronic calendar to allow family members to see when you plan to write. Ask your family members not to disturb you during your writing time but let them know you will be available after writing.

5.  Learn to write anywhere.

Train yourself to write in different places where you have to wait. For example, if you arrive in the carpool line 15 to 20 minutes early each day before school ends, use that time to write. Other places to write while you wait include the doctor or dentist’s office, the car dealership during maintenance appointments, Starbuck’s during your child’s tutoring session, and while your baby takes a nap.  

6.  Make time for family.

Once you finish your 10, 15, or 30-minute writing session, resist the temptation to write more. Instead, reconnect with your family. Let your spouse or children tell you what they would like to do. Take a walk, plan a fun activity like a trip to the aquarium or catch up.

For the writer-parent, each day may be different. Don’t beat yourself up if on some days you do not accomplish as much writing as other days.  

Just keep writing.

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